WHY DO WE LIE IN OUR RESPECTIVE RELATIONSHIPS?

Good morning world 😇 Today's topic is an interesting one. We're digging deep into the reasons why both men and women lie in a relationship.

Firstly, it is important to note that both men and women lie for different reasons. The two main reasons from concluded  survey reports have deduced these

*to save the relationship from falling apart

*for their selfish interests .

Now the Big Question sets in! DOES TELLING A LIE REALLY CAUSE MORE HARM THAN GOOD?

Over the years, I have had so many male and female friends alike (but mostly male) and they sometimes tell me the lies they have told their partners just to either get over a strenuous matter or subject in between them. You know, I'm never afraid to ask them what they'll feel like if they were the other person. Their answers are always 'SANDRA FORGET THAT THING'😆 we would just laugh and everything about the lie would be buried there and then.

Lies are more deadly than they seem. For me, lies kill the heart faster than poison. The feeling of betrayal from someone you thought was loyal to you is one of the worst feelings on earth. "Talking from experience here✋". I was once lied to and till date I find it hard to forget what the person did (although he has apologized) . It's not like I do not lie either but, if one is so dear to me, I try to remove myself from things that I know will bring controversies because I hate trouble.

In a nutshell, Lies will make you uncomfortable. Lies will make you realize how stupid you are. Lies will make you realize how selfish you are, Lies will lead you to telling more Lies and before you know it, you have lost all integrity and you would have lost yourself along the line.

Be a good person today and reduce / stop telling lies.😊 God bless you!